<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381</id><updated>2011-11-27T15:47:55.858-08:00</updated><category term='Photo Albums'/><category term='Videos'/><category term='Life'/><category term='Technical'/><category term='star engineer'/><category term='Florida Trip -2007'/><category term='Motivation'/><category term='Contemplation'/><category term='yeh tum kahan chal diye'/><category term='Mackinaw Island trip -2008'/><category term='poems by me'/><category term='Summer is back - The Poem'/><category term='Source :Internet'/><title type='text'>The Days of  my CRAZY but BEAUTIFUL life</title><subtitle type='html'>If you like me then Raise your hands ...If not then raise your Standard !</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>29</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-203063762507147239</id><published>2010-07-20T08:39:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-20T09:32:18.138-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><title type='text'>Give and Take</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;color:#993399;"&gt;Well it has been quite some time since I wrote something . Work pressure and recent changes in my life style didn't give me much of a breathing space to sit back and write somehing . So today when the forced shutdown in office and  the rainy weather outside made by brain more fertile , I thought let me write something .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;color:#993399;"&gt; As I was thinking what to write about , I bumped into my friend &lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Prasanna Srinivisan&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; ,who sits in adjacent cube and the discussion that followed turned into something very interesting ,a bit philosophical and needless to say worth sharing  :))) &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#993399;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;Well now on a little serious  note . we were discussing human relationships and how important they are to our daily lives . The  relationships  like everything else need to be nurtured and it too follows the principle of Give and Take which should not be confused with "You give and I take" :) . It has to be symbiotic in nature . As we were looking at the rain pouring outside , we thought how the nature itself implements it . If the clouds just keep on taking water without giving it back ...we would be looking at drought everywhere . If the water never gives itself as vapors , we would still be possibly looking at droughts , apart from missing out on getting pure water !!!!!! In human relations too, be it of any type ... we need to follow this principle of give and take to keep it alive ,pure and going .....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;Sometimes in life ,we need to undergo some tragedy  to realise its importance ... so my humble suggestion is to make sure you donot neglect it ,after all its a part of your dream of living a complete life :) &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-203063762507147239?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/203063762507147239/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=203063762507147239&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/203063762507147239'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/203063762507147239'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2010/07/give-and-take.html' title='Give and Take'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-1569369190798273232</id><published>2009-12-14T10:20:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-14T10:23:38.205-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Source :Internet'/><title type='text'>4 lines....</title><content type='html'>Read these wonderful lines while surfing the net and thought I need to share these with all of  you :&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#993399;"&gt;Life ends when you stop dreaming ,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#993399;"&gt;Hope Ends when you stop believing ,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#993399;"&gt;Love ends when you stop caring ,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#993399;"&gt;Friendship ends when you stop sharing !&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So friends I would like to take this opprotunity to ask you all to come forward and start sharing !!!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-1569369190798273232?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/1569369190798273232/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=1569369190798273232&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/1569369190798273232'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/1569369190798273232'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2009/12/4-lines.html' title='4 lines....'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-3341177975572217500</id><published>2009-09-19T20:08:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-19T20:27:25.510-07:00</updated><title type='text'>A passing thought</title><content type='html'>It has been an eventful as well as an uneventful year ! This was one of those years ,where along with the global economy ,even my thoughts went into a recession .&lt;br /&gt;Thoughts are a way to express how you feel...a verbal interpretation of your emotional state of mind . They come in a fleeting moment ,catch you unaware ...and leave you unaware..&lt;br /&gt;We always have thoughts .....some express it ,some discard it and some like me write it on his blog...&lt;br /&gt;Thoughts need not mean anything.,..its just your reaction to something you see.,,,and below lines fall in that cateogary...&lt;br /&gt;I woke up early morning (I dont understand why I get up  early on weekends and love to sleep on weekdays or rather call it office days ;-D )&lt;br /&gt;So my thoughts at the start of this day :&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;हर सुबह एक नया एहसास हैं&lt;br /&gt;एक नयी उमंग एक नयी सोच का आभास हैं&lt;br /&gt;आन्क खोल कर देखो उन फूलों को&lt;br /&gt;सुनो हवाओं में क्या साज हैं ...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wah wah ...Wah wah :)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-3341177975572217500?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/3341177975572217500/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=3341177975572217500&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/3341177975572217500'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/3341177975572217500'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2009/09/passing-thought.html' title='A passing thought'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-9028671755398715330</id><published>2009-03-04T13:23:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-03-04T13:40:16.509-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='poems by me'/><title type='text'>Let it GO !!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;Recently I have faced a lot of setbacks in my life.My happily going life has suddenly come to a thundering end .Its very gloomy out here and for a change I don't  blame it on American winter .All I have seen in the past few months is sadness around. I look at things that i used to do ...with my friends and feel that now I can never do that again .Those very things in my office that I used to look up to happily now seem uninviting. I have been feeling completely de- energized . With nothing to look up to in life, scared and lonely ,vulnerable and easily susceptible ,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;I just could not get myself up to writing my blog again .It's not that something bad actually happened to me .The culprit was my response to the situation.I have always been a emotional&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;and sensitive person and if something affects the people I love or care about ,I directly feel the pain. And with the job situation ,a lot of my friends have been in unfavorable situation leading to my discomfort(that does not mean that I am completely safe or immune ) .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;However ,I feel now this has to come to an end.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;My good times started when they were not expected to start .They ended when they were not expected to end .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;I need to control only what I can control .No one gains by keeping oneself unhappy .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;I want to sing and dance again, in the morning sunrise and evening sunset, in the twinkling of the stars and the dancing wind.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;Out of these thoughts comes the theme of my recent poem.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;Go around with a smile &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;Like a beacon of light you should shine&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;I  will get what I deserve &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;what I don't ,I consider was never mine &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;Nothing good or bad remains for ever&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;its the memories that linger on&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;Friends,People, Opportunities come and go in your life &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;However lonely you feel ,remember that the show must go on &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;When there is doom and darkness all around, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;remember all you need is a ray of hope&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;Tide will eventually turn in your favor &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;Just keep holding on to the rope ! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;You can cry and hate the world and ask &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;why all these problems are mine ,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;You can shut all doors of good thought and keep &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;yourself confined&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;But one should remember my friend&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;that even a stopped clock  shows the right time ! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;Last but not the least my friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;Believe in the "The ONE" &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;with his blessings all problems can be overcome &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;So just go ahead and pray your heart out ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;and see how all your problems sort out ! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-9028671755398715330?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/9028671755398715330/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=9028671755398715330&amp;isPopup=true' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/9028671755398715330'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/9028671755398715330'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2009/03/let-it-go.html' title='Let it GO !!'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-1714044240244392680</id><published>2008-10-09T11:35:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-09T12:41:13.987-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='poems by me'/><title type='text'>One love is what we need...One love  :)</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;Last time when I wrote &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Yeh tum Kahan chal diye&lt;/span&gt; ( &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" href="http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2007/12/yeh-tum-kahan-chal-diye.html"&gt;http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2007/12/yeh-tum-kahan-chal-diye.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;) a lot of my friends asked me to write a poem where love does not have a sad ending .So I am trying to look at the other aspect of love here .In this poem I have tried to capture those sweet moments of life when everything is like Sunshine in winter :)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;      &lt;span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 0, 51);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;Now a days everything looks changed &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 0, 51);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;         Even the dry leaves look colorful again &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        I keep thinking about her now and then &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        You can come and tell me that I am going insane         &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        I like walking slowly when she comes by ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        I wish at every moment that time just goes to Stand by &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        I look around and all I see is her ..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        Even in my dreams I keep waving at her &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        I smile when I hear her voice ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        I really cant help it ...I have no choice &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        I keep inventing  ways to meet her ....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        And all the way up to her house I think how to greet her ...        &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        How do I tell her that she is the answer to all my questions ..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        and if I go on to describe love ...she will end up as my interpretation .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        Does she also think the same about me ..or  does she not &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        Should I talk more in front of her or should I know where to stop &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        Should I be more jovial or pretend to be serious ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        What does she think about me ..I am completely curious &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        Love as they say can really affect you in ways ...which can be mysterious.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        Be it at office or be it at home ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        I am in my dreamworld with her and me alone &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        She make my nights longer and my days more bright ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        she has filled my life with unexplainable warmth and delight.. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        People say nothing good remains forever ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        And this feeling too shall pass away like nothing happened ever..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        But it doesnt matter to me which way the story will sway..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        all I know now is that love is here to stay ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;        whichever way she goes ...it has to be  "our" common way &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-1714044240244392680?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/1714044240244392680/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=1714044240244392680&amp;isPopup=true' title='12 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/1714044240244392680'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/1714044240244392680'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2008/10/love-is-in-air.html' title='One love is what we need...One love  :)'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><thr:total>12</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-8331308708351839783</id><published>2008-09-30T12:14:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-09T12:01:56.760-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Technical'/><title type='text'>Firefox 3: 8 Things You Didn't Know You Could Do</title><content type='html'>Recommended read for  all my technically inclined friends and fans of Firefox 3 .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.pcmag.com/article2/0,2817,2331278,00.asp"&gt;http://www.pcmag.com/article2/0,2817,2331278,00.asp&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-8331308708351839783?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/8331308708351839783/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=8331308708351839783&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/8331308708351839783'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/8331308708351839783'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2008/09/firefox-3-8-things-you-didnt-know-you_30.html' title='Firefox 3: 8 Things You Didn&apos;t Know You Could Do'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-3100096524325852410</id><published>2008-09-15T13:51:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-09-15T13:58:21.412-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Technical'/><title type='text'>Good Night !! Sweet Dreams !!</title><content type='html'>Nowadays I have cultivated a new habit of listening to some soft romantic songs or some instrumentals  before sleeping .However most of the time I end up allowing the songs to go on the whole night as I  am either fast asleep or too lazy by that time to shutdown my computer . This led me to search for some way to  shutdown my computer at a specified time .And here I am with a simple working solution :&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;   If you use&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; XP&lt;/span&gt; ,you need not worry at all .All you have to do is go to the Dos Prompt and        type  this :&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 153); font-weight: bold;"&gt;at 23:30 shutdown -s &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   Here 23:30 is the time at which you want the PC/Laptop to shutdown .&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;   In case of &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Windows Vista&lt;/span&gt; I was facing some problem .As soon as I gave this command I was getting an access denied  error ,even though I had logged-in as an administrator .So I figured out a work around .I created a Batch file in which I wrote the same command (To create a batch file all you have to do is open the Notepad,type this command  and save it as a batch file  *.bat).Then right click on this file and say "Run as administrator" . And you are all set !!!&lt;br /&gt;   This can also be used in Office ..in case you want to keep some Test running and want your PC to shutdown at a specified time .&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;   Note1 : In case you want to abort the shutdown you can give this command&lt;br /&gt;   at 23:29 shutdown -a .This command will abort the system shutdown .&lt;br /&gt;   Note2 : Note that shutdown.exe is in one of the folders (normally C:\Windows\System32) listed in the %PATH% environment variable.  Other commands will require the full file path&lt;br /&gt;   Note 3: I am sure there must be a better way to do it ,in case there is please do let me know .&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-3100096524325852410?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/3100096524325852410/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=3100096524325852410&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/3100096524325852410'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/3100096524325852410'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2008/09/good-night-sweet-dreams.html' title='Good Night !! Sweet Dreams !!'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-425945644125679339</id><published>2008-08-01T11:40:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-09T11:58:51.552-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='poems by me'/><title type='text'>Thought for the Morning</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;A small but sweet poem I wrote one early morning  :)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  Today, I got up early ..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  I got up in time ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  I could still see in the beautiful blue sky&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  the stars that shine .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  Flower have come out of the hiding ....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  and they are spreading their Fragrance into the surrounding .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  I had slept well..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  and my dreams were GOOD !&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  Looking at the beauty around me ..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  for sometime I stood .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  I breathed in the fresh air for as long as  I could ..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  And my heartbeats responded with gratitude .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  And then the cuckoo joined in ,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  to give me company ..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  As if singing ,"today you will change your destiny " !&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  And I smiled in acceptance ,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  Sipping my cup of morning tea ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  its the right time to start yet another "Odyssey"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  This has got to be a beautiful day...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;  May all the days of my life be this way !!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-425945644125679339?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/425945644125679339/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=425945644125679339&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/425945644125679339'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/425945644125679339'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2008/08/thought-for-morning.html' title='Thought for the Morning'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-5026909753628911631</id><published>2008-07-11T21:01:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-07-18T20:03:13.040-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Contemplation'/><title type='text'>Great Expectations!!</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SIFY5VXC3jI/AAAAAAAAAo4/6TSoUQzBasc/s1600-h/images.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SIFY5VXC3jI/AAAAAAAAAo4/6TSoUQzBasc/s200/images.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5224554784736075314" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;"  &gt;Life is under no obligation to give us what we expect. -- Margaret Mitchell            &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;"  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes some experiences in your life jolt you out of your normal routine life and force you to ruminate on the things happening to you .&lt;br /&gt;I recently had one such experience when some of my friends didn't rise to my expectations and left me all alone(that is what  I felt that time ) when I needed their company.To be fair enough to them ,there was something that I had expected and there was something that they didnt think I expected and in the end what ensued was completely unexpected .It was one of those days when you like to listen to sad  songs and feel a sadistic satisfaction that you alone are not sad .I am not sure about how much of gas or oil I used ,but the incident  did cause me a lot of heart burn :) .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But as I thought about the whole incident and came to the  conclusion that I finally drew ,I felt it was nothing short of a personal 'Aha' experience or a "Eureka moment" .The root of the problem was my "&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Great Expectations&lt;/span&gt;" . I had read a lot about it that we should never expect something from others orwe should be selfless in our service ,but never understood its signifance .Now I really understand how important it is in life .&lt;br /&gt;In one of my previous blogs (My Canddle Burns At Both Ends) I wrote that it is the effort that really counts .Now I really believe it .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Life can be really more enjoyable if we live in the moment without expecting anything !!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now I know most of you would be thinking that can you really or rather should you really let go of your expectations ??&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;For ex. 1.Wont your parents who raise you with such love and care expect you to reciprocate it in return ??&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;        2.Wont an Actor who gives his complete self to a movie expect it to be a block buster ??&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;        3. Wont a sports person like to go out and hit a century or score a goal when he goes out in the field ???&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;        4. Wont a boy expect the girl to love him in return the way he loves her ? (Ok Now I am going too far :D :P)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How can you really not expect these things  ? And if you really dont expect anything ,what really will be your source of&lt;br /&gt;inspiration  ?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;        Well in the answer to these questions lies the "Aha" experience !&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1.Tell me honestly did our parents raise us only because they wanted us to take care of them when we grow up or was it their love and affection for us ?&lt;br /&gt;2.Will Amitabh Bachhan or Amir Khan really quit acting if they get a series of flop ?(well they may not get movies to sign ,but that is altogether a different topic )&lt;br /&gt;3.Does Sachin really go out to bat for a century ? It may be his intention but what he really loves is the batting in itself.He will keep batting as long as he enjoys batting (and is kept in&lt;br /&gt;the team :D )&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On a ligher note,will you stop reading if you read one bad article(I hope this is not the one ) ???&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;        NO! Because you love reading in the first case ! :D&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lets take one more example !&lt;br /&gt;I have a dog at home .His name is Scooby .Sometimes when he does some mischief I scold him and he whines and goes away .&lt;br /&gt;If he does something good ,I go and roll my hand over his back and pat him .He neither whines nor goes away :D.&lt;br /&gt;But whatever way I treat him ,he always greets  me with an excited expression and a wagging tail (whose speed is directly proportional to the distance between him and me ).That is the lesson we all must learn .&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;To love without expectation&lt;/span&gt; !!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My basic point is that we should really do what we enjoy doing .All we should care about is the process .Things may or may not turn out the way we want them to be ...but one thing is for sure ,we will be a lot more satisfied .&lt;br /&gt;It took me a bad experience to realise this .But I hope it takes you just an article to realise the same !&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;     In the end Life is nothing but an improperly written complex equation.It depends on a lot of useless variables  (like Expectation, Inflated Ego,Anger etc ) .Our aim in life is to simplify this equation by removing all the unwanted variables and make this equation prefect !!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;       Quotes for thought :&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To free us from the expectations of others, to give us&lt;br /&gt;back to ourselves--there lies the great, singular power of self-respect. -- Joan Didion&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of the things that my parents have taught me is never listen to other people's expectations.&lt;br /&gt;You should live your own life and live up to your own expectations, and those are the only things&lt;br /&gt;I really care about it. -- Tiger Woods&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar which&lt;br /&gt;the ultimate fulfillment of that hope never entirely removes. -- Thomas Hardy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Expectations are like showing carrot to a Donkey ! You will keep chasing it ,but never get it !!! --Somil Patni (&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;do remember this during your appraisal cycle&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; :D )&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-5026909753628911631?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/5026909753628911631/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=5026909753628911631&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/5026909753628911631'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/5026909753628911631'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2008/07/great-expectations.html' title='Great Expectations!!'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SIFY5VXC3jI/AAAAAAAAAo4/6TSoUQzBasc/s72-c/images.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-6458871956609436383</id><published>2008-07-05T14:59:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-07-05T15:04:56.730-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Source :Internet'/><title type='text'>Think Before you SPEAK ..or else...well read on and you will know :D</title><content type='html'>&lt;h1  style="font-weight: normal;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Dont You Just Love It When...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;People who point at their wrist while asking for the time. I know where my watch is pal, where the @#$@ is yours? Do I point at my crotch when I ask where the toilet is? &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;People who are willing to get off their arse to search the entire room for the TV remote because they refuse to walk to the TV and change the channel manually. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;When people say, "Oh you just want to have your cake and eat it too." Right!. What good is a cake if you can't eat it?   &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;When people say "It's always in the last place you look." Of course it is. Why the hell would you keep looking after you've found it? &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;When people say while watching a film "Did you see that?" No, I paid $10.00 to come to the cinema and stare at the floor.   &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;People who ask, "Can I ask you a question?" Didn't really give me a choice there, did you sunshine?   &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;When something is "new and improved!" Which is it? If it's new, then there has never been anything before it. If it's an improvement, there must have been something before it. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;When people say, "Life is short." What?? Life is the longest damn thing anyone ever does!! What can you do that's longer?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;Source :Internet&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-6458871956609436383?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/6458871956609436383/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=6458871956609436383&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/6458871956609436383'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/6458871956609436383'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2008/07/think-before-you-ask-or-elsewell-read.html' title='Think Before you SPEAK ..or else...well read on and you will know :D'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-4180579965287311202</id><published>2008-07-03T19:00:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-09T12:47:07.616-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Contemplation'/><title type='text'>My candle burns at both ends !!</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SG2HlltGiFI/AAAAAAAAAoY/sPv5QVSs9NY/s1600-h/images.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SG2HlltGiFI/AAAAAAAAAoY/sPv5QVSs9NY/s200/images.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5218976623038466130" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 0);font-family:georgia;" &gt;Read these lines while surfing the net and loved them instantly :&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"  &gt;My candle burns at both ends ..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"  &gt;It may not last the night !&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"  &gt;But ah my foes and oh my friends....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"  &gt;It gives me a lovely light !!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;My Interpretation&lt;/span&gt; :&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 102, 0);font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"  &gt;Candle burning at both ends signifies an  effort to achieve something even  at the cost of personal discomfort ,just like a sportsman(say runner) who toils endlessly  in gym  doing some  exercise just to gain that extra life changing "second".&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 102, 0);font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"  &gt;His effort may not the "last the night" or turn out to be "fruitful",BUT...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 102, 0);font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"  &gt;Ah my friends the result does not count as long as you love the effort ...the effort gives you a LOVELY light !!! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-4180579965287311202?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/4180579965287311202/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=4180579965287311202&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/4180579965287311202'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/4180579965287311202'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2008/07/my-candle-burns-at-both-ends.html' title='My candle burns at both ends !!'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SG2HlltGiFI/AAAAAAAAAoY/sPv5QVSs9NY/s72-c/images.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-708699417283294432</id><published>2008-06-17T11:09:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-06-17T20:00:03.585-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Contemplation'/><title type='text'>Bring back the child inside you</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SFhqQ4OTOnI/AAAAAAAAAoE/pBWNhF6dZ1A/s1600-h/v17.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SFhqQ4OTOnI/AAAAAAAAAoE/pBWNhF6dZ1A/s200/v17.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5213033406884166258" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;People always say to me that I have grown by size but not by brains and that I am very childish .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;People also say to me that I am a hyper-active guy with loads of energy and a never ending optimism towards life !&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;Today I thought that I connect these two different interpretations of mine .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;I sincerely believe being mature doesn't mean that you need to have a serious look on your face ,that you &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;should say a particular thing and avoid saying a particular thing .I have seen a lot my my childhood friends &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;grow into dull adults .&lt;br /&gt;At the age of 25 they feel they have had enough of everything ! You can easily identify them by listening &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;to their language ..like Life is boring yaar !! I want a break !!! I want to do something different ,but I don't know what !!!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;And it is from these observations that my "Always be a child at heart" theory is derived .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;As a child we are very curious and excited about everything in life .We have set no limitations on us .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;Every day we wake up with a bright smile ..totally excited and curious about what in for us today.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;For us only sky is the limit!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;We love people and get unconditional love in return .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;But as we start growing up we start losing touch with our inner self .We create a invisible shield around us to hide our &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;incompetencies and shortcomings .We try to please everyone and in the process loose touch with what we really are .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;We still want to go out and dance in the rain ...but then we stop thinking what will the others say !!! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;Being a child brings back passion into our life .We are committed to a thing without thinking much about the results .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;We are more lifelike with more set of emotions . &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;Also being a child doesn't mean that you let go of your responsibilities .Even a child takes care of his things .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;Next time just go and try to snatch his favorite toy and you will know the answer :D .Even he has his priorities set !&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;What I mean is preserve that fire inside yourself .If you want to dance ..go ahead ! If you want to sing ...go ahead !!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;Join that Guitar class you have always been waiting for ...Just do it ...Its never too late ...and don't let your age come in between .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;Live the moment for what it is ...Enjoy the ride ..till Death shows you the "Red" signal :)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-family:georgia;" &gt;BTW there is one more person in this world who shares the same views as mine and probably explain this concept better than me  ,here is the link :&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.slowleadership.org/blog/2008/06/why-it-may-be-worth-becoming-more-like-a-child/"&gt;http://www.slowleadership.org/blog/2008/06/why-it-may-be-worth-becoming-more-like-a-child/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-708699417283294432?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/708699417283294432/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=708699417283294432&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/708699417283294432'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/708699417283294432'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2008/06/bring-back-child-inside-you.html' title='Bring back the child inside you'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SFhqQ4OTOnI/AAAAAAAAAoE/pBWNhF6dZ1A/s72-c/v17.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-7401783845290671390</id><published>2008-06-11T16:25:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-08T12:06:51.656-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Photo Albums'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Mackinaw Island trip -2008'/><title type='text'>Mackinaw Island 2008</title><content type='html'>&lt;a style="left: 0px ! important; 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float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SEM5bEfz1PI/AAAAAAAAAXQ/GFIQwiJaBZI/s200/IMG_2391.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5207068731396838642" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"&gt;As I sat on the early morning shoreline of Lake Michigan a sense of calm and composure started dawning on me .I was feeling that joy ,one doesn't feel often in this fast paced life .I was enjoying doing nothing and feeling the cool breeze and &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"&gt;watching lazily &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"&gt;the mist emanating from the water . The setting was there ,the time was there and a very beautiful song started playing on my IPOD and the next moment I found myself humming the tune of Gulzar's super hit song "Tujhe Naraz Nahi Jindagi ,Hairan Hoon Main...Tere Masoom Sawalon Se Pareshan Hoon Main  !!"&lt;br /&gt;I started thinking the context of the song and how it applies to our life .I asked myself do we really need to be angry  or perplexed with our life? Are we the chosen ones to face all the trauma that world has to offer ? Are we all alone left with no support in this so called cruel world ?&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes we feel totally isolated and excluded from the world .We look around for solace but find nothing but a vacuum and perpetual darkness in return .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And then suddenly from somewhere there's a flash and in that momentary brightness we come face to face with the truth that ,&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;External factors provide temporary solace&lt;/span&gt; .We need to go back to the roots .We have to look inside . We need to love and respect ourself .At every level and every strata there is a problem of varying complexities .We have the free will to choose and no one can deny that to us .We need to be the source of light rather than a gloomy blackhole .And then we can sing   "Ae Jindagi Gale lagale....Humne bhi tere har ek gham ko gale se lagaya hain ...hain na ? "&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hmm ...I Guess its time for me to go back to my camp(tent) again ...otherwise Jindagi ka to pata nahi ...my friends will definitely be angry with me for being so late from the morning trail  :D  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-2343210504606376669?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/2343210504606376669/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=2343210504606376669&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/2343210504606376669'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/2343210504606376669'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2008/06/as-i-sat-on-early-morning-shoreline-of.html' title='A passing thought'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SEM5bEfz1PI/AAAAAAAAAXQ/GFIQwiJaBZI/s72-c/IMG_2391.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-8627812943469552111</id><published>2008-03-14T21:23:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-09T11:59:26.650-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='poems by me'/><title type='text'>Na jaane kyon...</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 204); font-style: italic;font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:100%;"  &gt;Theme : All of us love to love and to be loved in return .Everyone would love to go through that &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 204); font-style: italic;font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:100%;"  &gt;"Pehla Nasha Pehla Khumar "  in his life .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 204);font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:100%;"  &gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; Some lucky souls find it and some are still waiting with open hearts .In this poem I have made a humble attempt to capture feelings of all those Single ready to Mingle souls :)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Na jaane kis ki yaad aa rahi hain ..&lt;br /&gt;Na Jaane kyon meri jaan ja rahi hain ...&lt;br /&gt;Har taraf andhera hain ....&lt;br /&gt;Aur Is andhere main yeh kaun roshi banake nazar aa rahi hain ...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Main sochta tha ..Main na tadapoonga kabhie ...&lt;br /&gt;Pyar ke is bhanwar main ....Main na uljhoonga kabhie ..&lt;br /&gt;Phir yeh dil ki dhadkan geet kyon gaa rahi hain ...&lt;br /&gt;Geet gaake yeh kisko bula rahi hain ?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Agar tum ho...,to tum kaun ho ...&lt;br /&gt;Sirf ek ehsaas banake hi mehsoos kyon hoti ho ...&lt;br /&gt;Sirf ek dard banake mujhe kyon dukhati ho ...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Kya tum ek khwaab ho ...mere sapnoy ke rang ka ...&lt;br /&gt;Ya phir ek soch ho ...meri dil ki umang ka ....&lt;br /&gt;Ek din waqt tumhe Haqeekat banayega ....&lt;br /&gt;Tab tak yeh dil ..tumhari yaad main ...yeh geet gata jaayega ...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-8627812943469552111?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/8627812943469552111/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=8627812943469552111&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/8627812943469552111'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/8627812943469552111'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2008/03/na-jaane-kis-ki-yaad-aa-rahi-hain.html' title='Na jaane kyon...'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-4435459514630285561</id><published>2008-02-15T21:28:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-04-19T17:49:51.948-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Contemplation'/><title type='text'>Tuesdays with Morrie</title><content type='html'>My Favorite Quote from that novel :&lt;br /&gt;"In the beginning of life, when we were infants, we need others to survive, right? And at the end of life, when you get like me, you need others to survive, right? But here's the secret: &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;in between, we need others as well."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;For more quotes please go through this link :&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://quote2me.blogspot.com/2007/04/quotes-from-tuesdays-with-morrie.html"&gt;http://quote2me.blogspot.com/2007/04/quotes-from-tuesdays-with-morrie.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-4435459514630285561?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='enclosure' type='text/html' href='http://quote2me.blogspot.com/2007/04/quotes-from-tuesdays-with-morrie.html' length='0'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/4435459514630285561/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=4435459514630285561&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/4435459514630285561'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/4435459514630285561'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2008/02/tuesday-with-morrie.html' title='Tuesdays with Morrie'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-203202677207657870</id><published>2008-02-01T14:45:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-10-09T12:00:17.594-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='poems by me'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Motivation'/><title type='text'>Fifteen Minutes Of Fame....</title><content type='html'>&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/R6OkepsfvgI/AAAAAAAAAU0/1L0NQ8vrX_8/s1600-h/images.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/R6OkepsfvgI/AAAAAAAAAU0/1L0NQ8vrX_8/s200/images.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5162150444392234498" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 102, 0);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"&gt;Theme :&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"&gt;In the future everyone will be world-famous for 15 minutes,Andy Warhol(American Filmmaker )&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;Life is not  a bed of roses ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;The Road to success is full of thorns ..&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;You circumstances may be uncongenial...&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;But then...everyone has been &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;forlorn&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;Thing have to change &lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;and they will change for the better...&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just learn to keep your faith and dreams..."Together"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;Some succeed and some fail ..&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;this life is such a game...&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;But believe me that everyone has got &lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;his  "15 Minutes Of Fame"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-203202677207657870?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/203202677207657870/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=203202677207657870&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/203202677207657870'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/203202677207657870'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2008/02/life.html' title='Fifteen Minutes Of Fame....'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/R6OkepsfvgI/AAAAAAAAAU0/1L0NQ8vrX_8/s72-c/images.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-7587489826259986017</id><published>2008-01-13T13:26:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-10-08T12:05:59.084-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Photo Albums'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Florida Trip -2007'/><title type='text'>Memories of Florida Trip</title><content type='html'>&lt;a style="left: 0px ! important; 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float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/R4jgu6HIA9I/AAAAAAAAAJY/QPfbx4E6cQE/s200/layoutimage.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5154616870003278802" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Authors note  :&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 204); font-style: italic;"&gt; The summer here signifies not only the change in the weather but also change in the way we see the world .Summer means life in all its colors ....a life of action and optimism. Summer means opening the doors to the world again and taking all its beauty in !&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Sun is shining again ...&lt;br /&gt;The clouds of doom have dispersed ...&lt;br /&gt;The winds of hope are blowing again ...&lt;br /&gt;The painful past is finally flowing down the drain ....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once again I see hope ...&lt;br /&gt;Once again I  smile ...&lt;br /&gt;But in this moment of exhilaration ...&lt;br /&gt;I should remember ...&lt;br /&gt;that everything comes for a while !&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Life is a great leveler ...&lt;br /&gt;It has lot to teach ..&lt;br /&gt;I may not have everything for everyone ...&lt;br /&gt;But it does have something for each .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Author : Somil Patni&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-8671322219153762808?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link 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href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=6435563351427460912&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/6435563351427460912'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/6435563351427460912'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2007/12/golden-memories.html' title='Golden Memories'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-1588538922920446038</id><published>2007-12-17T19:43:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-10-09T12:01:02.744-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='poems by me'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='yeh tum kahan chal diye'/><title type='text'>Yeh tum kahan chal diye ...</title><content type='html'>Theme : &lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 102, 0); font-style: italic;"&gt;Some people get the love of their lives .Some people watch it going away right in front of their eyes .Happy though they will be for their their loved one ,but it does hurts somewhere in the heart .This poem is dedicated to all those lonely souls who have gone through the emotion of separation&lt;/span&gt; .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/R2dCSSRVINI/AAAAAAAAAIo/-TaMsva0MVQ/s1600-h/loneliness.jpg"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;Saath chalate chalte ..tum kis rah main chal diye ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;Tum har jawaab pakar chal diye ....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;Hum khudse sawaal kar ke chal diye ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;tum haath tham kar chal diye &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;hum dil tham kar chal diye &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;tum muskura kar chal diye &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;hum ghum chupa kar hans diye &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;Jin aankhon ne humesha tumhe pyar se dekha &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;unhe tum andekha kar ke chal diye &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;tum aankh chura kar chal diye &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;Hum aankh jhooka kar chal diye &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;ab hawaaon ko peeta hoon &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;tum armaano ko hawa main uda kar ke chal diye ....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;ab sapnoy main jeeta hoon main &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;tum haqeeqat ko sapna bana ke chal diye &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;jab jag sota hoon ....main karvate badalta hoon &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;doobta suraj dekh kar khush hota hoon &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;tum kaante thama kar chal diye ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;Hum phool samaj kar hans diye ....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;Is hansi ke peeche chupe kayi bhed hain &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;par ab ae mere ghum mujhe rukawat ke liye khed hain....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;ladkhadate ladkhadate hum jindagi ki taraf chal diye &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;tum jindagi ko banane chal diye ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;" &gt;Hum roothi jindagi ko manane chal diye ......&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Author : Somil&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-1588538922920446038?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/1588538922920446038/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=1588538922920446038&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' 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{parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/R0-LbfRdqFI/AAAAAAAAAHw/8kAHTQKNEGQ/s1600-R/pic_wonder_ice_roads_lg.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/R0-LbfRdqFI/AAAAAAAAAHw/ogNLAzxHhn4/s200/pic_wonder_ice_roads_lg.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5138479004220500050" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;&lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;Life&lt;/span&gt; is like a &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;road&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;which goes on and on ... &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;and the moment we stop walking &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;we are &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;   gone&lt;/span&gt; .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;just like a &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;road&lt;/span&gt; ...our &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;life&lt;/span&gt; also has rough patches....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;   just like in a &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;road&lt;/span&gt; ...we are sometimes on the fast lane and sometimes on the wrong lane ....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;finally always the winner is the one who plays the game &lt;/span&gt; .....   &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;sometimes just like different roads ...different people merge into  our lives  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;and then at some bend ,..that relation comes to an end.....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;but ...&lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;road&lt;/span&gt; like &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;life&lt;/span&gt; goes on and on !!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;sometimes some speed breaker comes which brings &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;life&lt;/span&gt;'s journey to halt... &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;   weak hearted go off the &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;road&lt;/span&gt; but the choosen ones take it head on....&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;So...ENJOY the journey ...feel the breeze ..let go off all your fear .. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"&gt;After all (driving) &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;life&lt;/span&gt; is  just a matter &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;of&lt;/span&gt; properly managing the pace and shifting the gear( i.e making adjustments as per the situation)  .     &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Author ,&lt;br /&gt;Somil &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-2116965392841746174?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/2116965392841746174/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=2116965392841746174&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/2116965392841746174'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/2116965392841746174'/><link rel='alternate' 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type='html'>&lt;h1 style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:6;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:24;" &gt;Becoming a &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; engineer &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;By Robert E. Kelley&lt;br /&gt; IEEE Spectrum, October 1999, Volume 36 - Number 10&lt;br /&gt; &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;While looking for innate factors that   separate top-performing &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;engineers&lt;/span&gt; from their colleagues, a Carnegie Mellon    University professor   discovered that stars are made, not born, and reveals how.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;IN 1985, I WAS ASKED A SERIES OF QUESTIONS,   AND HAVE been tracking down their answers ever since. Bell Laboratories (then   part of AT&amp;amp;T Corp. and now mostly belonging to Lucent Technologies Inc.)   was perplexed. It hired the best and the brightest from the world's most   prestigious universities, but only a few lived up to their apparent potential   for brilliance. Most developed into solid performers of mostly average   productivity who did not substantially further Bell Labs' contribution to   AT&amp;amp;T's competitive advantage in the marketplace. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;What the labs wanted to know was: what   separates the &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; from the average performer? Is it innate or can &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt;   performance be learned? Could a program to improve productivity be designed   that would help turn average performers into stars? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Not just companies are asking these questions.   Since 1985, I have met few professionals who do not want to be more   productive. In their own minds, most &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;engineers&lt;/span&gt; believe they can be stars.   They dislike being outshone by a co-worker and strive constantly to do better   than before. In the workplace, they are being forced to do more with less.   Global competition, mergers, and downsizings have left them with greater   responsibilities and fewer resources. Who among us is not working longer and   harder today than five years ago? Who does not have more work piled up in the   in-basket or long lists of unanswered e-mail and phone messages? Which of us   is not afraid that if we are not more productive, we might get the ax next?   Who does not want more control over their lives--a better balance between   work and personal lives? Everyone is being told to work smarter, but no one   seems to know what that means. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;My colleagues and I have been working on these   corporate and personal productivity questions ever since. Over a thousand   &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;engineers&lt;/span&gt; from Bell Laboratories, 3M, and Hewlett-Packard contributed to the   original research as both collaborators and subjects. To discover the secrets   of &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; performance, we used paper-and-pencil tests, direct observation, work   diaries, focus groups, and individual interviews, drawing upon statistical   analyses, content analyses, and iterative model building as appropriate. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Many other companies took part, from those   reliant on electrical &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;engineers&lt;/span&gt;--such as Analog Devices, Fore Systems, and   Air Touch--to those like Shell Oil and Kimberly Clark that are involved in   other kinds of engineering. They have used our productivity improvement   program to turn their &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;engineers&lt;/span&gt; into higher performers and in so doing have   also contributed to the growing body of knowledge on &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; performance. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;h3 style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:13;" &gt;The path to stardom &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Lai and Henry were hired at Bell Laboratories   with similar credentials: 3.8 GPAs (grade point averages) from top-ranked   undergraduate programs in electrical engineering; summer internships at   computer companies; and glowing recommendations from professors. Yet they   took distinctly different approaches to their first six-month assignment.   Mornings, they took classes in telephone technology and the methods Bell Labs   uses to conduct its work. Afternoons were spent on break-in projects--work   that needed to be done but that would not jeopardize crucial projects if done   badly. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Henry holed up in his office as if writing his   dissertation or studying for a law bar exam. He collected volumes of technical   documents to acquaint himself with the latest ideas, surfacing only for a   bathroom break or a mandatory staff meeting. "What's going to   count," he remembered thinking at the time, "is whether I can prove   to my co-workers how technically smart I am." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Lai set aside 3 hours each afternoon to work   on her assignment and to sharpen her technical skills. In whatever time was   left of her workday, she introduced herself to co-workers and asked questions   about their projects. If one of them needed a hand or was facing schedule   pressures, she volunteered to help. Lai was new to the work place culture,   but even so her colleagues warmed to her willingness to pitch in, especially   given that their problems were not hers. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;One afternoon, a colleague was struggling with   a recalcitrant program for a software project due the next week. Lai had   picked up a new programming tool in an advanced course, and she thought it   could handle the problem. So she offered to work on the program while her   colleague focused on the larger project. On another occasion, some   sophisticated software tools had to be installed on everyone's office PC.   Standard practice was for each PC user to do the job by trial and error.   Having run into the same cumbersome procedure during an internship, Lai   thought it more sensible for one person to install the tools in all the   machines, and she offered to do the job. But the installations proved   unexpectedly tough, requiring two weeks rather than the four days she had   planned. Lai could have backed off but she saw it through, even though she   had to come in early and stay late for several days so that neither her work   assignment nor her class work would suffer. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;After six months, Henry and Lai had finished   their technical classes and their first assignments. Their projects were   successful and judged technically competent. Indeed, Henry's work may have   been slightly more technically proficient than Lai's. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;But in the work place, Henry came up short.   While known as a nice guy, he was also pegged as a loner. He was seen as   technically adept, but his ability to share his skills with co-workers was   questioned. He carried on as if still in school, where the individual's   performance is what counts. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;But Lai came across as someone who took   initiative, who saw several problems and stepped forward to solve them even   though they were not her responsibility. She had created the impression of   being in the lab group for far longer than six months. Managers of course   noticed she was showing the characteristics of a &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; engineer and already   were viewing her as a candidate for fast-track assignments. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;As seen in the quiz on&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; "&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;a href="http://documents%20and%20settingsm.mehtamy%20documentsmypresentationseinfochipsstarengquiz.html/" target="_blank" onclick="return top.js.OpenExtLink(window,event,this)"&gt;Understanding   &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; performers&lt;/a&gt;", most people (like Henry) have preconceptions about   what causes &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; productivity, and most of their notions are as wrong as can   be. Over the past 14 years, we have debunked many common myths and made some   startling discoveries about the outstanding engineer. One of our first   findings was that workers and their bosses tend to disagree on who the &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt;   performers are. We first asked managers to list their choices. We then   suggested narrowing the list to those persons they would turn to if they had   to staff an important new project, if they had a crisis that needed a SWAT   (Special Weapons and Tactics) team, or if they were going to hire for their   own business. When we showed the list to a group of &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; performers, they   pooh-poohed the managers' selections. "How did Joe get on the   list?" they asked incredulously. "Joe hasn't done much for years.   And where's Maria? Everyone turns to her when they hit a brick wall or need   new ideas." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;The difference in their reactions gave us   pause. We took a step back and asked managers and brain-powered workers to   name those people who greatly outproduced and outperformed their peers,   especially if they did so with methods others admired. We were after the   cream of the crop--we wanted to weed out the high producers who bulldoze   their way to greater productivity but whose wake of destruction swamps any   positive contribution. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;The result of this exercise was only a 50   percent overlap between the two groups. Brainpowered workers and their   managers disagree half the time on who the stars are. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;For our original research at Bell Labs, we   refined our sample. We included only people on both managers' and co-workers'   &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; lists. (In later work with 3M, we added the requirement that the stars   receive customers' approval, as well.) We also took into account the number   of awards, honors, and performance bonuses won, as well as patent or   publication credits where applicable. These undisputed stars were the group   we studied and whose performance was the basis for our research. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;To pin down how &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; performers and solid   middle performers differ, our research team asked top executives, middle   managers, &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;engineers&lt;/span&gt;, and other researchers for their opinions. We accumulated   45 factors that managers and &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; performers close to the action believed led   to outstanding performance. The four main categories were: cognitive factors,   such as higher IQ, logic, reasoning and creativity; personality factors, such   as self confidence, ambition, courage, and a feeling of personal control over   one's destiny; social factors, such as interpersonal skills and leadership;   and work and organizational factors, such as the worker's relationship with   the boss, job satisfaction, and attitudes toward pay and other rewards. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Next, to figure out which of the 45 factors   differentiated between the groups, we put hundreds of &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; and average   performers in meeting rooms across the country and administered a two-day   battery of tests. We also did surveys, developed detailed case histories, and   interviewed employees and the managers who hired them. &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;Engineers&lt;/span&gt; and managers   also supplied us with biographical information and personnel file material. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Perplexingly, after two years, our data showed   no appreciable cognitive, personal or psychological, social, or work or   organizational differences between stars and non-stars. For each traditional   measure, alone or in combination, we had come up empty. We compared the   numbers a dozen ways, stretched computer analyses to their limits, and with   each run, found the computer spitting back what we then thought was the result   of some terrible methodological mistake: there were no quantifiable   differences. between members of the two groups. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Yet, by recognizing this, had we not   discovered something critically important? That the four factors we presumed   were vital to &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; performance--cognitive, psychological, social, and   organizational characteristics--were not the real drivers at all? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;The long-term value of our effort was that it   laid to rest the cloud of myths around &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; performance [&lt;a href="http://documents%20and%20settingsm.mehtamy%20documentsmypresentationseinfochipsstarengquiz.html/" target="_blank" onclick="return top.js.OpenExtLink(window,event,this)"&gt;see   quiz&lt;/a&gt; ]. And in fact, over the next years of our research, we learned that   other factors were at play&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;Most   &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;engineers&lt;/span&gt; come to the workplace with more than enough potential to succeed   splendidly, but most end up as run-of-the-mill. The stars were not standouts   because of what they had in their heads but because of how they used what   they had. The productivity mystery lay in learning how to transform their   talents into high productivity--much like turning potential energy into   kinetic energy. Stars, we saw, are made, not born. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;h3 style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:13;" &gt;Nine work strategies &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;So, if you are an engineer searching for a   productivity boost to your intellectual capital, what must you do to dazzle   everyone? Prior to our work, an answer did not exist. The &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; work   strategies were taught nowhere, not in school or on the job. For the most   part, it was a matter of trial and error. But many technically competent   &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;engineers&lt;/span&gt; make too many productivity errors to end up as more than average.   For example, they fail to take initiatives or take initiatives of no   importance to the organization. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;We found that you need to change how you do   your work and how you work with others. &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;Star&lt;/span&gt; performers in fact do their work   quite differently from the pack. They weave their starring strategies into a   consistent pattern of day-to-day behavior. But any engineer with the   necessary smarts and motivation can acquire their power. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;All the same, no Big Bang revelation unleashes   this kind of productivity. No magic pill or silver bullet will blast you to   the top. Instead, stellar performance is based on a set of nine interlocking   work strategies. They are ranked in order of importance and synthesized into   an expert model. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;h3 style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:13;" &gt;1. Blazing trails &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;What did you think of Henry and Lai? Did you   see Henry's emphasis on just technical competence as undervalued or Lai as   being rewarded for, well, schmoozing? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Average performers, like Henry, imagine   initiative is coming up with ideas for doing their job better or volunteering   for little extras in the workplace, like planning the annual picnic or   recruiting people for the blood drive. Indeed, Henry believed he was taking   initiative. "I gathered up the latest technical information and learned   about the latest software tools so that I could do a bang-up job on my   assignment. Nobody told me to do any of that," he told us. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;What Lai understood, and Henry did not, is   that only certain actions earn the initiative label. &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;Star&lt;/span&gt;-quality initiative   means: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;ul style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Seeking out responsibility        above and beyond job description (as when Lai installed the PC        software), while still completing your core assignment. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;   &lt;ul style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Undertaking extra efforts for        the benefit of co-workers or the larger group, as when Lai offered to        help fix the software program on her co-workers' project. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;   &lt;ul style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Stepping willingly into the        gaps between job descriptions where important work often pops up,        grabbing your share of it, and doing a bang-up job on it. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;   &lt;ul style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Sticking tenaciously to an idea        or project and following it through to successful implementation, as Lai        did when she worked the extra days necessary to install the new office        software. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Many average performers suppose the only   worthwhile initiatives are on the order of inventing a commercially   successful new product, like the object-oriented Java language. If something   will not make the front-page of &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Wall   Street Journal&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; under a headline proclaiming a steep climb in   bottom-line profits, then it isn't worth the effort. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;&lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;Star&lt;/span&gt; performers in our studies were adamant   that while they are always looking for roof-raising initiatives, the small,   day-to-day efforts had the same impact over time. Moreover, they noted that   the whopper initiatives tend to follow a long string of lesser efforts. If   the work climate you create does not value small initiatives, they will dry   up and the big ones will never get a chance to happen. Lai's helping-hand   initiative, for instance, may have given a co-worker the breathing space   needed to make a meaningful breakthrough. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;The stars also believe that expectations about   the initiative you may take hinge on your level of experience. As a new   employee, Lai was not expected to take big initiatives, but her record of   taking smaller ones pleasantly surprised her co-workers and soon established   her reputation as a productive engineer. As she gains more experience, Lai   will be expected to take on higher-level initiatives of greater difficulty   and riskiness. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Our observations of Henry, Lai, and hundreds   of other &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;engineers&lt;/span&gt; show that any newcomer in a unit of professionally   skilled, competitive workers must demonstrate initiative. Such behavior   impresses managers, but more importantly, it impresses your co-workers and   customers. Co-workers look for people who do not lock themselves within a   rigid job description. They want colleagues, like Lai, who are willing to   step into the gaps between jobs because they know that if the new worker does   less than her or his share, the rest of them will have to carry more of the   load. They need people who extend themselves--whether it be to their   colleagues, to the customers, or to the changing needs of the marketplace. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Customers are also looking for these   characteristics in the employees they encounter. A new hire who falls short   of these expectations will be relegated to the pack, labeled, perhaps like   Henry, as competent but not productive in ways that benefit the group. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;h3 style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:13;" &gt;2. Knowing who knows &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Average performers think networking just means   building a grapevine for learning the latest office gossip, or socializing   with people in their field and with executive head hunters who can help them   in future job hunting. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;&lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;Star&lt;/span&gt; producers engage in addition in a more   important type of networking. As they realize, the information overload of   today's society means that few people know all they need to know to get their   jobs done. They know maybe 50-80 percent, and until they can make up the   deficit, they are stuck. What helps the stars get unstuck is effective   networking. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;A &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; knows it is vital to develop ahead of   time dependable two-way streets to the experts, who will help each other   complete the tasks critical to the bottom line. The goal is to minimize the   knowledge deficit that every engineer discovers as she or he measures up to a   new job. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Stars' networks differ from typical workers'   networks in two important respects. They have the right people in them, and   they are faster. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;The people in their networks can provide the   right answer the first time. Average performers get wrong answers more frequently   either because they ask the wrong people or because the experts with the   right answers are not in their networks. So they spin their wheels or go down   blind alleys. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;The faster networks get the stars unstuck and   back on the task sooner than the rest. If it takes a &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; a half-day to get   an answer, it takes the others one to two days to get it and often it is   wrong. Over time, these extra days add up. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Better-connected and faster networks allow the   stars to turbo-charge their productivity, so that they outpace the average   performers, who might have similar talent, but go it alone. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Claudio, an information technology consultant   working for the international consulting firm, Andersen Consulting, was   assigned to write a contract proposal to a tight deadline. At stake was a   $500 000 contract for providing information technology support for   bio-assaying processes used in biotechnology firms. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Claudio remembered an undergraduate classmate   who had gone to work for Genentech Inc., the industry leader, and called her.   In turn, she put him in touch with the scientist who had pioneered the   assaying process. In just two afternoon phone calls, he got the information   critical for his report. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Contrast what befell Newt, an Andersen   colleague of Claudio's who needed the same information. Instead of thinking   through his network, Newt followed the company's recommended procedure and   posted his question on the in-house electronic bulletin board. When he logged   into his computer the next workday, 40 leads were waiting, all of which had   to be plowed through. Many of the messages contradicted one another, but as   he knew none of the people who responded, he could not to judge the quality   of their answers. He was essentially still at square one with 40 potential   leads to track down. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Thus, while Newt was still struggling with his   information overload, Claudio had already used his &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; network to move   faster and farther ahead. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;The current rage in many upper management   circles is to embrace computer intranet-ing as the high-tech solution to   knowledge deficits. Managers spend millions of dollars on additional computer   hardware and software, believing workers like Newt can e-mail their way out   of such quandaries. But successful networking is most often accomplished in   one-to-one interactions, not in the impersonal, one-to-many format of   computer technology. &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;Star&lt;/span&gt; networking entails building, maintaining, and   operating within a group of experts who share knowledge for mutual benefit.   It has little to do with technology. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;h3 style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:13;" &gt;3. Proactive self-management &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Average performers believe self-management   means managing time and projects better. If their work is done within   schedule, budget, and specifications, then they must be good self-managers. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;&lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;Star&lt;/span&gt; producers know that much more than time or   project management is at stake. These requirements you are expected and paid   to meet. Their work strategy helps them proactively create opportunities,   direct work choices, perform extra well on the job, and carve out a career   path. It enables them to develop a portfolio of talents and work experiences   that increases their value to the company. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Elena worked in the R&amp;amp;D department of an   advanced materials ceramics company supplying the auto industry. She   requested travel funds to attend a productivity and quality conference. As it   was not directly related to her work, her boss could not see the point;   besides travel funds in the budget were low. Elena was undeterred. Since she   believed the conference would make her more valuable to the company, she took   vacation time and paid her own way. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;While she was there, she learned about Europe's upcoming quality standard, ISO 9000. The goal   of these bidding requirements was to ensure higher-quality raw materials,   products, and processes--all to give European companies a greater competitive   edge in world markets. If a supplier company, like hers, could not meet them,   it would not be allowed to bid on European projects. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Elena came back all jazzed up. On her own   time, she got up to speed on ISO 9000 requirements and explained them to her   work group during a brown bag lunch. Pretty soon her co-workers were excited,   too, enough to go to their management and persuade them of the benefits of   getting ahead of the learning curve on Europe's   ISO 9000 bidding specs. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Upper managers were a harder sell. They were   skeptical that the Europeans would ever agree on these new standards, let   alone enforce them. But Elena kept working the decision-makers, sending them   articles and writing memos about the benefits of being first. Finally, the   top executives saw some concrete advantages and got behind the idea. Europe   is now the company's biggest customer and the company's improved quality is   attracting U.S.   business as well. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;The company's increased success sprang from   Elena's self-management. She took it on herself to enhance her value despite   her unsupportive manager. She was also spotting opportunities to increase the   company's value. Finally, Elena's actions point up the interconnectedness of   the work strategies. Her self-management also involved initiative--a   willingness to move beyond her narrow job description, beyond even the boss,   to reach a goal that benefited everyone. To top things off, she refused to   give up. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;h3 style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:13;" &gt;4. Getting the big picture &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Average performers suffer from tunnel vision.   They see the world from their viewpoint only and keep pushing the same points   over and over again. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Stars, in contrast, step outside their own   viewpoint and adopt a variety of perspectives: "How do my customers   think about this? What do my competitors think? How about my colleagues? What   about top management or the shareholders?" Because they can evaluate the   relative importance of a variety of viewpoints, they are able to improve on   the product or develop better solutions to problems. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;&lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;Star&lt;/span&gt; perspective grows out of getting enough   experience to develop pattern recognition. Sarah took a software development   job in Silicon Valley after completing her   master's degree in computer science. During school and on her software   designer job, she kept a notebook of observations on the solutions to common   problems. Every night, she would review the notebook, looking for clues and   patterns like another Sherlock Holmes. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;With her combination of practice and   experience, she certainly kept up with the other new hires, but what   eventually separated her from the pack was her internalized grasp of software   and computer logic. Co-workers were quick to recognize her insightfulness,   seeking her help in surmounting their brick walls. Such encounters gave her   valuable exposure to problems she would not have faced in her own work. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;After her first year, Sarah stunned her   colleagues by requesting a transfer to software testing, an assignment often   mistakenly considered second-class, a career dead-end. The tester checks on   others' work, to determine if the software does what it should. There is   scant personal satisfaction of the kind that comes from creating new   products. Software developers tolerate testers, albeit reluctantly and   usually defensively, as the necessary bearers of bad news--identifying bugs   and checking for quality. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;But Sarah saw the tester job as a chance to   understand her work from a fresh and crucial perspective. She would become   familiar with a wider range of problems that could make software fail. She   would gain years' worth of experience in just a year or two. She would   collaborate with top customers on building testing programs of relevance to   their perspective. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;In the process, Sarah would avoid mistakes of   substance and perspective in her own future software designing. Testing also   opened a window into the perspective of her colleagues. She learned   techniques her co-workers used in writing software and corrected flaws found   during the testing process. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;When Sarah returned to software development   two years later, the testing stint started to pay off. Her colleagues were   soon referring to her as the Zen Master of software, and she became known as   a leading software guru, helping propel her company to the top in Silicon Valley. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;&lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;Star&lt;/span&gt; performers, like Sarah, who have mastered   the nuances of perspective, were not born to the art of it. They seek it out   and cultivate its benefits. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;h3 style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:13;" &gt;5. The right kind of followership &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Average performers believe that   followership--that is, the relationship with people having organizational   authority and power over them--means showing managers and co-workers that   they know how to toe the line, take orders without question, and not threaten   the leader. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;&lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;Star&lt;/span&gt; producers learn very early the importance   of a more positive form of followership, of being a good No. 2--that it is   often more important to make the assist than the score. They are actively   engaged in helping the organization (and usually the leader) succeed, while   exercising independent, critical judgment about what needs to be done and how   to do it. &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;Star&lt;/span&gt; followers work cooperatively with a leader to accomplish the   organization's goals even when there are personality or workplace   differences. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;This finding was surprising since it   contradicts what many people think--that a &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; is always a leader or the   center of attention. Often &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; followers support the leader by alerting him   or her to trouble spots, by serving as a thoughtful sounding board, or by   challenging the leader's decisions. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;In many technology companies, a fine line must   be walked between what the company believes the customer wants and what the   knowledge workers think is best. I often hear bosses complain that their   &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;engineers&lt;/span&gt; are building a Rolls Royce when the customer only needs a Dodge.   Enamored of their ability to build the best, workers want to attach all the   latest bells and whistles, even though this can lead to delays or budget   overruns. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;In one such exchange, a &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; engineer at Bell   Labs had to confront the boss's nagging about his extra efforts. The boss   wanted to ship a stripped-down call-routing feature for the telephone switch   in order to come in ahead of schedule and win points with the customer. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;"Forget about all the extras. The   customer would rather have a basic model today than the greatest model one   month from now," she said. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Not necessarily, said the &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; performer, and   sat down with her to review the product's short- and long-term goals for this   customer and others in the marketplace. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;"Sure, there might be short-term gains   with this customer," said the follower, "but there are risks, too.   They may relegate us to the low end of the line when we have staked out the   high-end market. Also, if we do the extra work on this customer's product   now, we'll save on product development time for other customers already in   the pipeline. But let's find out what the customer prefers." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Our &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; as follower understood the boss's   immediate concerns. At the same time, he tried to shift her perspective to   the larger overall goals they shared. When possible, such followers temper their   own efforts so that they fall in the range of company objectives--or they   find an organization that is a better match. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;h3 style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:13;" &gt;6. Teamwork as joint ownership of a project &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Average performers think teamwork means   working cooperatively with others on a project or problem and doing your part   on the team. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;&lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;Star&lt;/span&gt; producers take it to a higher level. They   see it as a complex series of skills that involve taking joint   "ownership" of goal-setting, group commitments, work activities, schedules,   and group accomplishments. It also means being a positive contributor to the   group's dynamics--helping everyone feel part of the team, dealing with   conflict, and assisting others in solving problems. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;A medical equipment supplier formed a crisis   team because hospitals were furious over recent failures in the companies'   latest critical care monitors. The equipment gave off emergency warnings at   random, distressing both patients and the hospital staff who would rush into   triage alert only to find nothing wrong. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;The team consisted of professionals from five   departments, including production, research, and customer service. Of the   group's seven members, the only &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; was Aiden, an engineer who had moved   into customer service to learn more about that side of the business. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;During the third hour of the first team   meeting, a heated debate erupted over what action should be taken   immediately. Ewing, a 53-year-old production   engineer with 25 years of experience at the company, argued for continuing to   send repair people to the disaffected hospitals to fix the machines on site.   But Julie, a recent hire in the research department, argued for following   Johnson &amp;amp; Johnson's lead from the Tylenol disaster--recall all the   machines. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;The discussion dragged on, with Ewing and Julie getting more heated and less civil.   Aiden noticed that he and others were getting frustrated and fidgety. Rather   than let the matter go unchecked, he mentioned it, and upon getting nods of   agreement from several of the others, he suggested, "Why don't we take a   10-minute break, so that we can all take a breather and maybe find a way   around this?" &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;When the meeting resumed, Aiden thought he   could break the impasse by asking Julie to present and argue for Ewing's   approach and getting Ewing to argue hers.   Although both Julie and Ewing were wary, the   tactic defused the mounting tension and anger. Then other group members   started to bat ideas around. Eloise, an experienced but shy designer who sat   in the corner and had not said a word all day, spoke up in a soft voice:   "Since not every hospital is complaining, shouldn't we first find out   why these particular machines are malfunctioning? Either they're broken to   start with, or something is going on in the hospitals they're in. So, rather   than pull all the machines, maybe we should pull only those having problems   and gather information on each setting to see if something there is causing   the problem, like a high magnetic field." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;No one commented on her idea and the   discussion resumed. After a few minutes, Aiden joined in, saying, "I'm   not sure everyone heard Eloise's suggestion. I think that she might have a   way out of this for us. Would you mind repeating it for us?" &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;With that, Eloise made her point again. Aiden   observed that it demonstrated customer responsiveness but was less expensive   than a total recall. The rest of the group then supported Eloise's suggestion   to get through the group impasse, and moved on to other topics. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Without Aiden's intervention, Ewing and Julie might still be fighting, Eloise might   never have been heard, and the group might have floundered indefinitely. By   going beyond his role as the customer service rep to the team, Aiden was able   to improve its effectiveness. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;h3 style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:13;" &gt;7. Small-l leadership &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Average performers are fascinated by   leadership with a big L: Big Vision, Big Charisma, Big Success. To them,   leadership seems an in-born trait whose owners can flaunt their egos by being   in charge, having the power to make most key decisions, and delegating   whatever does not interest them. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;&lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;Star&lt;/span&gt; performers, on the other hand, view   leadership as a work strategy that builds on expertise and influence to   convince a group of people to unite on a substantial task. The undertaking   can involve a range of efforts--helping the group create a clear vision of   where they want to go along with the high commitment and trust necessary to   get there; finding the resources to accomplish the task; and shepherding the   project to successful completion. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;We all know very smart people who couldn't   lead a one-car funeral. Other critical skills besides intelligence are   involved in leadership with a small l. Small-l leaders understand the human   relationships that link people to each other, whereas Big Ls are much too   focused on their own ideas, their own work styles, their own goals. Small-l   leaders know they need to take into account the needs, skills, aspirations,   and power of their co-workers on a project or team. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;This focus outside the self is productive   because of a work place reality that Big Ls often overlook. Small-l leaders   seldom have formal authority over those they want to lead. Peers will go   along only if they believe a member of the group who wants to lead is acting   in their interest as much as his or her own. Bringing them around requires   the kind of interaction that Big Ls believe is a waste of precious leadership   time. The small-l leader who bonds with co-worker followers by slogging   through the daily project grind and sharing late-night pizzas while meeting   deadlines earns more loyalty and credibility than even the most charismatic   Big L boss. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;The big secret here from our &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt;   performers--the secret that separates them from Big Ls and other   average-performing leaders--is their refusal to assume they know everything   about other people. Most Big L hype portrays the leader as omniscient. The   Leader knows what's best for the followers and for the situation. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Our &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; performers make a habit of asking   first, even when they think they already know. Anithia, a U.S.-based software   designer for a German-owned business, rarely begins a new project without   testing her assumptions about her co-workers. When assigned to lead six   co-workers in a project to develop a new software program for the Internet,   she took time out from the first meeting to ask about work roles and   assignments. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;"John, during our last project together,   you said that you wanted more hardware experience. Is that still the case?   Because this project has a strong hardware component to it." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Like a perceptive psychologist, Anithia   suspended her own assumptions and asked empowering, open-ended questions that   got people talking about what skills each brought to the table and what each   one wanted from the project. As a result, she was able to match work   assignments to individual skills and interests more closely. She wanted to   avoid pigeonholing her co-workers, in the way Hollywood   producers do when they type-cast actors. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Of course, employees cannot always get   everything they want. But with the sincere offer to listen and the attempt to   meet some needs a small-l leader without formal authority wins a lot of   influence. Those efforts also provide the firm platform needed when the   inevitable stresses hit during the project's crunch times. Demonstrated   superiority in a technical area may in any case justify some small-l stars in   becoming an interim leader. But they know that hierarchy does not extend to   the interpersonal side, where instead, they try to create a   we're-all-in-the-trenches&lt;wbr&gt;-together attitude. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;To software designer Anithia, the Internet   project in which she acted as small-l leader proved a huge hit with   customers. At the annual awards banquet, the president of the North American   division praised it as being "vintage Anithia." Inviting her to the   stage, he compared it to other successful projects Anithia had led in the   past. If the company had 500 more like her, he said, domination of the U.S.   market would be assured. Then, he summoned her to the podium to speak. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Like so many self-important actors clutching   their Oscars, Anithia could have rushed through the standard nice words about   her boss and project members. Instead, she invited them all on stage with her   and asked one of them to introduce each member of the group. Then she stepped   to the microphone and said, "This project was the result of &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;our&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; effort; without each person's   contribution, it would not have been the success it is. We were proud of it,   and glad that you are, too." Then they took a collective bow. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;h3 style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:13;" &gt;8. Street smarts &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Average performers focus overly on   ingratiating themselves as the surest way to get ahead in the workplace. They   also pay obsessive attention to office politics or patronizingly ignore it. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;&lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;Star&lt;/span&gt; producers know that any large   organization has legitimate competing interests. Organizational savvy enables   them to steer their way amid these clashes, to promote cooperation, address   conflicts, and get things done. It can involve expertise in managing   individual or group dynamics, understanding when to avoid conflicts and when   to meet them head on, and knowing how to make allies out of potential   enemies. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Remember Sarah, the software-developer &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt;   introduced in Strategy No. 4 on perspective [p.54] who volunteered for a   stint in the testing section, though her co-workers thought her crazy to do   so. She also identified people with whom she would interact in the future and   began building working relationships. These organizational bonds not only   raised her standing in their eyes, but also smoothed the way for future   interactions. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Elena, the &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; performer from Strategy No. 3,   on self-management [p.54], used extensive organizational savvy to focus her   company on ISO 9000 and the opportunities presented by the European market.   First, she held a brown bag lunch for her colleagues to tell them what she   had learned at a professional conference. When she became more adept, she   offered detailed tutorials. Meanwhile, she sat down with her boss to explain   the benefits to the company of the special standards, and quietly lobbied   upper management by sending them relevant articles and short memos on the   sales and profit potential. Of course, she made sure to ask her boss's   blessing before contacting top executives. She then trained others in her   company in how to bid for European customers. So while trying to promote her   ideas, she was tying them to the company's critical path and paying attention   to organizational protocol. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;h3 style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:13;" &gt;9. Show and tell &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Average performers think Show-and-Tell means   getting noticed by upper management through slick presentations, long-winded   memos, and public displays of affection for their own work. They focus   primarily on their image and their message, not on the audience. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;&lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;Star&lt;/span&gt; producers use a series of skills   involving selecting which information to pass on to which others and developing   the most effective, user-friendly format for reaching and persuading a   specific audience. At its highest level, Show-and-Tell involves selecting   either the right message for a particular audience or the right audience for   the particular message. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;There is no getting around it. The economy of   the 1990s is a tough place for professionals who have trouble presenting   their ideas to groups, especially in personal presentations. For most   knowledge workers, we're not talking about big productions, like Bill Gates   or Billy Graham addressing thousands in cavernous convention halls endowed   with modern multimedia tools and computer-generated special effects. Instead,   Show-and-Tell denotes small end-of-the-hall conference room presentations to   groups of five to 20, with an occasional auditorium presentation thrown in.   The audience is co-workers, or upper-level managers, or customers. The   content is usually technical and product-related. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;In the realm of the &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; producer, though, the   process is more sophisticated. From our research, we observed a fine-tuning   of Show-and-Tell--from mere transmittal of information points to the   sculpting of the message. The stars we observed had mastered the ability to   deliver a message to a targeted audience, to persuade listeners to accept the   message, and to be proactive in deflecting criticism. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Where average performers fail most often is in   making the leap from the basic dispensing of information to the high level of   using the message to influence. Their style and framework of delivery remains   the same even though their audiences can differ a lot in makeup. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;A labor relations manager for a Fortune 500   corporation did it the right way when he had to reduce health care costs in a   new contract to be negotiated with the company's unions. The plan he   developed had to be acceptable to both the top officers of the company and   the unions. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;His approach was to fashion the same   information in radically different ways, first to a small group of   lower-ranking union officials in bite-sized chunks over a week of meetings on   their home turf. He provided them with clear, easy-to-read handouts that   could be duplicated and handed out to rank-and-file members with a reasonable   chance of being understood quickly. The presentation's high point was the   message that the union's agreement to switch over to a managed care program   would be balanced by the company's promise to use the cost savings to   modernize outdated plants, making them competitive and reducing the risk of   closings and job losses. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;His earlier presentation to the company's   chief executive officer (CEO) and top vice presidents contained fundamentally   the same information, but it was packaged quite differently. First, the time   window for his presentation was much shorter than that allowed by the unions.   The bulk of his message was delivered in a no-nonsense, well-documented, and   detailed report with a persuasive section on recommendations for acceptance.   He was able to reinforce his basic message in person in a 1-hour meeting on   the company plane with the CEO and the company president. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;His position was that if management demanded   changes in health care benefits without any creative incentives, the unions   would balk and make negotiating a new contract nearly impossible. He noted   that the company was just entering on a period of impressive growth and that   stockholders would hardly take kindly to a protracted strike. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;While there was criticism of his plan within   both camps, the &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; labor negotiator had laid his groundwork well. In the   end, both management and the rank-and-file approved the health care benefits   proposal with only minor changes. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Of the many &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; Show-and-Tell lessons to be   learned from this example, the most important is the one that differentiates   between Show-and-Tell stars and average presenters: know your audience and   shape your message to it. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Meara designs software for the transmission of   images--X-rays&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;   electrocardiogram readings, and live closed-circuit TV shots--over phone   lines to and from hospital emergency operating rooms. She used a short video   clip to start a presentation to emergency room physicians and hospital   directors of her team's latest software design. The clip showed a car   slamming on screeching brakes, the whine of the ambulance siren, a small   child being rushed into the emergency room, and a doctor flicking on her   company's equipment saying they only had minutes to save a young life. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;"Our work can make the difference in   saving this child's or &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;your&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;   child's life," Meara told her audience. "Throughout our project, we   played this video clip to remind ourselves of the importance of giving it the   best we could. Now let me share it with you." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;To compare her software's effectiveness with   that of previous versions, Meara used an electronic timeline accompanied by   the thump of a heartbeat as heard in emergency rooms. First, she ran the old   software, but as the audience waited for the pulsing images to come up on the   screen, the timeline reached its end, the heart stopped beating, and the   emergency room alarms went off. With the new software, the images arrived   faster and beat the timeline. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Then Meara took the audience through the ups   and downs of the project as they tried various solutions to shaving time off   the process--what worked, what failed, and why. She wove technical points   into the human drama of health professionals working to save peoples' lives. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Meara hooked her audience by getting them to   identify with the terror of their child's being in a medical emergency and   needing her company's product to work. Then, she dramatically demonstrated   the value of the new product. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;h3 style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:13;" &gt;Becoming a &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;We conducted a long-term study evaluating how   productive &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;engineers&lt;/span&gt; were before and after they had learned &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; work   strategies by going through our productivity improvement program. Currently   called Breakthrough, this program has been taught for the past seven years to   over 1000 people in many companies not only in the United    States but in Europe   as well. It is licensed to professional training companies and is being used   in universities both in the classroom and for staff development &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;As a basis for our evaluation, we met with   managers, &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; performers, and average workers, asking them to list the   factors indicative of increased productivity in a person working in their   departments. Several iterations ensured that people who rated highly on these   factors were indeed highly productive. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Then we asked direct managers to rate 300   participants and 300 nonparticipants on this list of productivity factors,   once before the training sessions began and a second time eight months after   finishing the program. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;On the basis of these managerial evaluations,   program participants were found to have increased their rate of productivity   improvement significantly. The &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;engineers&lt;/span&gt; who went through the program solved   problems faster, produced higher-quality work, and consistently impressed   their customers. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;The &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt; strategies program is not a remedial   course for poor performers. About 30 percent of the participants taking part   in our productivity improvement programs already were wearing the &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt;   producer label. Their productivity gains have been similarly impressive. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;The most dramatic changes were in the ranks of   women and minorities, according to their bosses' pre- and post-evaluations.   Their productivity improvement rates shot up 400 percent on average. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;The success of these groups underscores a key   finding in our work. Becoming highly productive does not require magic. When   &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;engineers&lt;/span&gt; produce at undistinguished levels, it is seldom because they are less   capable--it is because they never learned the work strategies that lead to   high productivity. Once these &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;engineers&lt;/span&gt; are given access to the &lt;span id="st" name="st" class="st"&gt;star&lt;/span&gt;   strategies, their productivity takes off.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: lucida grande;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Author :&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:12;" &gt;Robert E. 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float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/RzvJVPRdqEI/AAAAAAAAAHo/hTjo2kGs8D8/s200/puzzle.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5132917567033026626" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;Life is a mystery &lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;Its a hard puzzle to solve ....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;But it becomes more clear ,as you as a person evolve....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have lost many chances ....I have made my share of mistakes&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;But I have to continue my efforts ...as Life itself is at stake !!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;You dream about a lot of things &lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;and ultimately they flow away ...just like water in a stream ..............&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;You build your castles &lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;and add to it colors of love and care !&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;You dare to say &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-weight: bold;font-size:100%;" &gt;Life Is Beautiful&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt; !&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;and then it throws the question at you &lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;"How did you dare to dare ????"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are times when you lose all hope...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;And you tie your emotions to a loose rope ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;You humbly accept that you are not the chosen one ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;and suddenly it throws bounties on you in tones and dozens!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;You make mistakes and you learn ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;You try to implement those learnings for the success you yearn ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;You travel the&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Road less traveled&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;to learn more and more &lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;You slowly grow into a walking giant from being a sophomore !&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;All those experiences of life ,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;When you involve &lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;You come as close as possible &lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;to the puzzle you always dreamed to solve !!!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Author :&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(102, 51, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;Somil Patni &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-5605287062669892212?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/5605287062669892212/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=5605287062669892212&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/5605287062669892212'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/5605287062669892212'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2007/11/puzzle-that-is-called-life.html' title='The Puzzle That Is Called Life !'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/RzvJVPRdqEI/AAAAAAAAAHo/hTjo2kGs8D8/s72-c/puzzle.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-7677133377394403210</id><published>2007-02-20T05:51:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-11-17T16:27:07.393-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Domain Of Work :</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 255, 255);"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;PowerPC&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;Windows (all)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;C , CAN,  J1939,Trace32 ICD,Automotive Embedded .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-7677133377394403210?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/7677133377394403210/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=7677133377394403210&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/7677133377394403210'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/7677133377394403210'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2007/02/domain-of-work.html' title='Domain Of Work :'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-2687910411027762101</id><published>2007-02-20T05:29:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-09-30T09:24:40.987-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Interested Fields :</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/Rdr5Dfrvc_I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_BlqMjFbAyI/s1600-h/Support.gif"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5033609371979838450" style="margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; float: right;" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/Rdr5Dfrvc_I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_BlqMjFbAyI/s200/Support.gif" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;Protocol Implementations&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;Device Drivers&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;Hardware Services&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;Micro controller based board design&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;Independent Verification Software Services&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-2687910411027762101?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/2687910411027762101/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=2687910411027762101&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/2687910411027762101'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/2687910411027762101'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2007/02/interested-fields.html' title='Interested Fields :'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/Rdr5Dfrvc_I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_BlqMjFbAyI/s72-c/Support.gif' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1424015673886054381.post-4937641143869627209</id><published>2007-02-20T04:23:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-11-17T16:44:37.056-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Well You Have Found Me.....</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/RdrxEfrvc-I/AAAAAAAAAAc/sUv3Fnhq26k/s1600-h/keyboard2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5033600593066685410" style="margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; float: right;" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/RdrxEfrvc-I/AAAAAAAAAAc/sUv3Fnhq26k/s200/keyboard2.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/RdrwR_rvc9I/AAAAAAAAAAM/NDtEuMM6h5M/s1600-h/keyboard2.jpg"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 255, 51);"&gt;Hi, all..............&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 255, 51);"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 255, 51);"&gt;I am Somil Patni,  basically from Wardha (near Nagpur) .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 255, 51);"&gt;I have done my Engineering from College Of Engineering &amp;amp; Technology &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 255, 51);"&gt;( North Maharastra University), Jalgaon.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 255, 51);"&gt;Presently, I am working with KPIT Cummins, Pune.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1424015673886054381-4937641143869627209?l=somilpatni.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/feeds/4937641143869627209/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1424015673886054381&amp;postID=4937641143869627209&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/4937641143869627209'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1424015673886054381/posts/default/4937641143869627209'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://somilpatni.blogspot.com/2007/02/well-you-have-find-me.html' title='Well You Have Found Me.....'/><author><name>Somil Patni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17090327841856971035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/SNV-NC6ou_I/AAAAAAAAAr8/WD04PwrDc5k/S220/Picture+020.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_IP8qS67Bagk/RdrxEfrvc-I/AAAAAAAAAAc/sUv3Fnhq26k/s72-c/keyboard2.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry></feed>
